100 questions to ask kids – great conversation starters for the whole family.
My usually energetic, animated three-year-old boy stood still.Â Itâs been 10 minutes since the last time he moved a muscle.Â He was mesmerized by the beluga whales at the Georgia Aquarium. Â
He watched the massive white sea animals swim up and down behind the tall thick glass.Â The 2,000-pound creatures looked like they were having a blast entertaining the people on the other side of the glass barrier.
I wondered what was inside my little boyâs head.Â What did he think as he watched the gentle giants play?Â What was it that stopped my bouncy little boy in his tracks and had such a strong hold of his attention?
Sure, the animals were fun to watch, but I knew my little boy well.Â This was a bunny-boy on batteries that just kept going, and going, and going.Â And now there he was, standing before an enormous aquarium of beautiful sea creatures, and it seemed that someone pressed the âoffâ button on his charge port.
He turned around, found me with his eyes, and asked me a question.
“Can we bring them home?”
Suddenly it all made sense.Â My son stood still, imagining the beluga whales greet him through a thick glass wall in his bedroom as he woke in the morning.Â He imagined swimming with them, throwing a beluga-sized ball to them, and feeding them goldfish crackers.
Such a colorful world lived inside my little boyâs head.Â He had such innocent incomprehension of reality, that it made me want to daydream about having a pet beluga whale, too.
Itâs so insightful to take a peek into whatâs going on in our kidsâ heads. Â And to help with that,Â we can ask them leading questions, questions that open up the door to their world, so we can look through it, understand them better, and remember what itâs like to be a kid.
100 Questions to Ask Kids
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- What is love?
- What scares you?
- Do you like bugs?
- What is happiness?
- What makes you happy?
- What is your secret talent?
- What makes a person kind?
- Did you help anyone today?
- What makes you feel loved?
- What are you really good at?
- What makes a happy home?
- How did mom and dad meet?
- Are the rules in our family fair?
- What does being brave mean?
- How would you describe God?
- What are you grateful for today?
- Describe yourself in three words.
- Describe our family in three words.
- Name the qualities of a good friend.
- What do you worry about the most?
- What does your perfect day look like?
- Describe the happiest day of your life.
- What job would you not want to have?
- Finish this sentence: âI wish I couldâ¦â
- What names would you give your kids?
- What is your favorite weekend activity?
- What do you like most about your dad?
- If you had a store, what would you sell?
- What is the hardest thing about school?
- What is your favorite place in our home?
- What is your favorite thing to do for fun?
- Whatâs the best thing about being a kid?
- What do you like most about your mom?
- Tell me about your most favorite memory.
- Whatâs one rule you wish we didnât have?
- What do boys not understand about girls?
- What do girls not understand about boys?
- What is the best gift youâve ever received?
- Describe something that embarrasses you.
- What is the bravest thing youâve ever done?
- What is your favorite thing about our family?
- What is the best thing that happened today?
- What is the most important thing in your life?
- If you got $1,000, what would you do with it?
- If you could time travel, where would you go?
- If you had one superpower, what would it be?
- What is the worst thing that happened today?
- What is the best way to make someone smile?
- If you were an inventor, what would you invent?
- Tell me about your most embarrassing moment.
- What makes you feel better when youâre upset?
- What is something you did that youâre proud of?
- If you could make up a holiday, what would it be?
- What is the best thing to do when you feel angry?
- If you were an animal, what animal would you be?
- If you learned to cook, what would you cook first?
- Does it matter if a person lies, if no-one finds out?
- What do you think mom/dad was like at your age?
- If you could ask God a question, what would it be?
- If you would only have one wish, what would it be?
- If you could get rid of one chore, what would it be?
- Would you rather have a bunny or a lizard as a pet?
- If you were a superhero, what would your name be?
- Do you think any person can cry for a good reason?
- What is something you can do that no-one else can?
- What would you do to make this world a better place?
- Is it ever ok to share a secret you were asked to keep?
- If you got into serious trouble, what would you do first?
- If we had a role switch day, who would you want to be?
- How many kids do you want to have when you grow up?
- How would you want me to help you when youâre upset?
- If you discovered a new planet, what would you name it?
- What is your favorite thing that we do together as a family?
- If you could do one act of kindness today, what would it be?
- If you could have any job in the world, what job would it be?
- If you could do one chore for a year, what chore would it be?
- What type of home do you want to live in when you grow up?
- What is the most important thing your parents did/do for you?
- What is the difference between being smart and being wise?
- If you could teach mom and dad one thing, what would it be?
- If you could ask mom/dad any question, what would you ask?
- If you had a date with mom/dad, what would you do together?
- If you became an author, what would your first book be about?
- What would you let your kids do that youâre not allowed to do?
- If you could learn to do something overnight, what would it be?
- If you could be famous, what would you want to be famous for?
- What is the most important thing you learned from your parents?
- Would you rather have a house on the beach or in the mountains?
- If you could live in a book for a day, which book would you choose?
- What is one thing or event that you would like to have a do-over for?
- If you could turn any age you want right now, how old would you be?
- If you could only eat one thing for the rest of your life, what would it be?
- In your opinion, what is the most important quality for a person to have?
- If you could take any animal home from the zoo, what animal would it be?
- If you were stuck on a desert island, what 5 things would you bring with you?
- How much screen time should each person in this house be allowed per day?
- If you had a chance to have a different first name, what name would you pick?
- If our next vacation destination was up to you, where would you want us to go?
- If you could pick one place to travel anywhere in the world, where would you go?
- If a friend wanted to give up on something heâs been working hard on, how would you motivate him to keep going?
Itâs a good idea to add âWhyâ at the end of these questions.Â This question prompts kids to think deeper and exercise their cognitive skills.
I asked my kids an open-ended question recently and it led to an enormous list of 140 fun summer bucket list ideas for kids. Â
Use these questions to make your own kiddie survey, or compile a list to ask your kids every year and see how their answers change with age.Â Enjoy these conversations with your kids, and who knows, maybe they will teach you something new, too.
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